Haha, I can totally relate to that! At some point during my experiments I tried to look at people really intensely to see what happened, and I ended up sensing that I was being intrusive, or even intimidating.

I guess it’s all about finding a balance: too little makes you distant, too much makes you seem too intense. The right amount, if we don’t have it naturally in us, takes effort to reach, as we need to learn how to become aware both of our own openness, and the comfort and emotions of the other person. However, getting to that sweet spot — just like it happens with so many other things in life — if often one of the most fulfilling accomplishments I have ever experienced.

Thanks for sharing your story, thanks for your humor and positive vibe, and keep on rocking that “craziness” of yours! haha